I still don't think you're getting it. You're not trying to help – you're trying to talk over us and explain how we feel to our faces, even when you've just admitted you don't know what we've been through and you don't understand how we feel.

[ she's certainly starting to lean more towards 'strained politeness' than actual politeness. ]

I'm not going to dignify that with a response, because you're clearly not understanding what I'm trying to say. This has nothing to do with you and doesn't affect you in the slightest. So why do you care so much?