o)+ To exPand on your metaPhor, sometimes the wisest course is to keeP your hands to yourseLf untiL you're certain that Putting them in someone eLse's sPace isn't going to resuLt in getting bitten.
o)+ Or at Least untiL you can say with confidence that if they do snaP at you, your hand bLeeding aLL over the PLace won't just uPset everyone invoLved enough to canceL out the heLP you were trying to offer.
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o)+ To exPand on your metaPhor, sometimes the wisest course is to keeP your hands to yourseLf untiL you're certain that Putting them in someone eLse's sPace isn't going to resuLt in getting bitten.
o)+ Or at Least untiL you can say with confidence that if they do snaP at you, your hand bLeeding aLL over the PLace won't just uPset everyone invoLved enough to canceL out the heLP you were trying to offer.