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phonetasmal2018-06-28 10:39 pm
dubiouslychthonic) wrote in phonetasmal2018-06-28 10:39 pm
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o)+ ALright, foLks, quick PSA before this has a chance to become an awkward issue, since I have friends around here and for some reason so does JaiLbreak:
o)+ TroLLs have a greater variety of romantic reLationships than humans usuaLLy do. Some of these are more or Less equivaLent to human romance - we caLL those ones red romance, generaLLy sPeaking - but we aLso have a couPLe of modeLs of bLack romance, which is founded PrimariLy in confLict and contention rather than more Positive emotions.
o)+ Kismessitude is normaL and heaLthy in my sPecies, and JaiL aPParentLy has a sense of adventure more usuaLLy associated with PeoPLe getting eggs Laid in their thoraxes. She seems to think she knows what she's getting into by continuing to needLe me. We're both aduLts and abLe to Look our for our own interests.
o)+ As such: it's ok to react to PubLic disPLays of contention with the same sort of miLd censure with which you'd treat equivaLent PubLic disPLays of affection. I wouLd request that you foLks not attemPt to arbitrate between us without exPress invitation. Doing so is imPoLite at best and tantamount to a ProPosition to a different romantic quadrant at worst.
o)+ TroLLs have a greater variety of romantic reLationships than humans usuaLLy do. Some of these are more or Less equivaLent to human romance - we caLL those ones red romance, generaLLy sPeaking - but we aLso have a couPLe of modeLs of bLack romance, which is founded PrimariLy in confLict and contention rather than more Positive emotions.
o)+ Kismessitude is normaL and heaLthy in my sPecies, and JaiL aPParentLy has a sense of adventure more usuaLLy associated with PeoPLe getting eggs Laid in their thoraxes. She seems to think she knows what she's getting into by continuing to needLe me. We're both aduLts and abLe to Look our for our own interests.
o)+ As such: it's ok to react to PubLic disPLays of contention with the same sort of miLd censure with which you'd treat equivaLent PubLic disPLays of affection. I wouLd request that you foLks not attemPt to arbitrate between us without exPress invitation. Doing so is imPoLite at best and tantamount to a ProPosition to a different romantic quadrant at worst.
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i don't give a shit about whether or not heart's setting you off, and i trust him to make his own godsdamned decisions about all of this. i don't speak for him or tell him what to do. what i care about is that you clearly just don't give a damn about the fact that what you're doing has an effect on people who aren't you.
'oh, this is izunia is going to replace me trauma' no shit it is, and you don't even seem to care. suddenly it's on me to fix the situation when you came to me about how leonard upset you and forced my hand in intervening because you threatened him?
you don't get to do that, then turn around and do as you please as though your actions don't have the same consequences as his.
in conclusion, you're an absolute hypocritical prick and i still despise you without a trace of hyperbole to that.
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I don't know what helps you. Other than 'stop entirely' which, to be frank? I am not going to let your traumas control my life, I have enough issues of my own doing that.
This is an entirely different conversation than him stepping on my traumas with the exclusive goal of hurting me, and you know it, you're just excusing it because you like him and hate me. And I asked you to step in in that instance because the only alternative was to descend into a spiral of increasing antagonism that I don't want. Your alternative here to screaming is... actually talking to either me or Heart, with something other than unfettered aggression.
In conclusion, you're just as hypocritical and also a git, and expecting me to move perfectly around your traumas like some kind of mind reader is beyond unfair. I love you but so help me if you don't learn to communicate I'm going to elbow you in the diaphragm.
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I WILL SHOUT AT YOU ALL I LIKE BECAUSE YOU'RE BEING A PRICK AND I FEEL THIS DOESN'T REQUIRE TELEPATHY TO REGISTER AS AN INCREDIBLY TERRIBLE THING TO DO ON YOUR PART
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Ugh. Alright, I fucked up. Sorry.
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they're not remotely separate and i'm kind of shocked you need this pointed out to you
i'm not saying 'avoid every single person i like' but if you don't recognize that isn't the same as all of this i really don't know what to tell you.
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I'll back off the flirtatious antagonism but I don't think we can stop driving each other up a wall.
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fuck it, never mind, if i try to define the distinction right this second i'll just get pissed off about it
fine, so long as you back down with the flirting.
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