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phonetasmal2018-05-09 05:48 pm
cyclicalconcept) wrote in phonetasmal2018-05-09 05:48 pm
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[Its a small, quick post. It’s also not in her normal formatting. But it’s obvious who it it’s, to some people.
And not just because it has Kana’s user name on it, of course.]
What is hate, to you? How do you know that you hate someone? How do you reconcile that hate when it’s towards someone you care for?
I hope I make some sense. I’m not sure what I’m thinking right now.
And not just because it has Kana’s user name on it, of course.]
What is hate, to you? How do you know that you hate someone? How do you reconcile that hate when it’s towards someone you care for?
I hope I make some sense. I’m not sure what I’m thinking right now.
ten minutes or so this time
Except when I was, but not what I meant.
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this one's ANOTHER several hours later, I'm sorry Kana he's just napping between replies
No, hated just fine.
Just very screwed up. Couldn't reconcile even normal anger with love.
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May I ask you something, then? If you are all right with me asking this.
If there was someone out there you cared for and who did wonderful things, but then did something that would be unforgivable, but couldn't bring yourself to hate them. Because you were unable to.
Is that wrong to feel that way? Or
or is there something wrong with that? With me?
VERY much later; Tuesday morning; much more coherent but in full Latin?
But there is a large space between hatred and anger. If you cannot bring yourself to even get angry about what was done, that would be cause for concern. Anger, frustration, hurt - these are all normal feelings to have.
As for hate... At least for myself, I think that hate cannot exist without love. Because it is the people we care about most who have the potential to hurt us most deeply, and it is also those same people who, when they are hurt, inspire us to hate those who have harmed them.
But that may yet be the rambling of an old man who has experienced far more of love, even obsessively, than he has of anything else. Jury's still out, I'm afraid.
A little while after that
I just can't hate her. Even after what she took away.
She was her best friend, and after what I did, how can I judge her?
some hours later, after Twin Kerfluffle
But you can be angry at someone without hating them or wishing them harm. Whether it's because of something they did, or just because they're getting under your last nerve. It doesn't have to be perfectly rational or justified. Emotions aren't logic; they're not supposed to be.
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